"How to Politely Reply to Comments and Make Friends on rednote (Xiaohongshu) without Knowing Chinese"
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Comment: 首先你要知道豆腐脑是甜的🥺
Translation: First you need to know that tofu pudding is sweet 🥺
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🇨🇳 哈哈真的吗？我怎么听说北方人喜欢咸的，南方人喜欢甜的？！
🇺🇸 Oh really? That's funny - I always heard northerners go for salty food and southerners have more of a sweet tooth!
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超级可爱！我想用你的猫猫头像！
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Comment: 超级可爱！我想用你的猫猫头像！
Translation: Super cute! I want to use your cat avatar!
Suggested Reply:
🇨🇳 哇，谢谢姐妹夸奖！🥰 我家这只小可爱也很开心哟～你也养猫吗？要不要交换一下猫片？😺
🇺🇸 Aww thank you! 🥰 My little cutie is super happy too! Do you have a cat? Wanna exchange some cat pics?😺
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My girl friend said: "You just keep making excuses and clearly don't care about this relationship. I'm done caring!"
Oh man, this sounds like a really heated moment. I can feel the frustration and hurt in her message...
The thing is, when someone says "I'm done caring," it's usually coming from a place of feeling really dismissed or unvalued. We need to handle this carefully because this could be either a breaking point or a cry for better communication.
For now, I'd suggest responding with genuine acknowledgment rather than getting defensive. Maybe ask her to meet and talk in person, like: "I hear how hurt and frustrated you are, and that's the last thing I want. Can we talk about this in person? I really want to understand where you're coming from"
Or if you feel she's right about excuses, you can show that you are willing to change, like: "You're right - I haven't been showing up the way you deserve. I want to fix this if you're willing to talk"
What do you think has been leading up to this? It'll help me give better advice on how to move forward...
My girl friend said: "You just keep making excuses and clearly don't care about this relationship. I'm done caring!"
It sounds like your girlfriend is upset and feeling unvalued in the relationship. This kind of statement often comes from a place of frustration or emotional exhaustion. Here's how you might approach the situation:
1. Take a moment to reflect
Before responding, think about whether there's any truth to what she's saying. Have you been making excuses or not putting enough effort into the relationship? Self-reflection will help you understand her perspective better.
2. Acknowledge her feelings
Let her know that you hear and understand her. For example, you could say: "I hear what you're saying, and I can tell you're really frustrated and hurt. I'm sorry if I've made you feel like I don't care about this relationship, because I do."
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I have a crush and we've been texting for a while, but since yesterday he stopped texting me back, what should I do?
Omg wait - spill the tea! How long have you been texting and what was the last convo about? 👀
But also don't panic yet bestie! Sometimes people get busy or caught up with stuff. Though I totally get why you're anxious - that sudden silence hits different when you're crushing hard!
I'd say give it another day or so before reaching out. If you want to text them, keep it super casual and light, maybe like "Hey, just saw this [meme/show/whatever] and it reminded me of our conversation about [whatever]!"
Just don't send multiple texts or anything that sounds worried or accusatory. Play it cool, even if you're internally freaking out (trust me, we've all been there!)
Tell me more and we can figure this out together! 💕
I have a crush and we've been texting for a while, but since yesterday he stopped texting me back, what should I do?
It can be unsettling when someone you're interested in suddenly stops responding to your texts. Here are some thoughtful suggestions on how to handle this situation:
1. Give it some time
- People get busy with work, school, family obligations, or personal matters
- Sometimes phones break or people lose service
- They might need some space to process their thoughts
2. When you do reach out
If a day or two has passed and you'd like to try again:
- Keep it light and casual: "Hey! Hope your week is going well. I was thinking about that café you mentioned - have you been there recently?"
- Avoid sending multiple messages in a row
- Don't express frustration or demand explanations for their silence.
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My boyfriend told me he's falling for his coworker. She's so smart and fun. I'm just a boring office worker... I can't imagine losing him. What should I do?
OMG wait WHAT??? Let me give you a virtue hug because that's absolutely crushing to hear. Listen to me - don't you DARE call yourself boring! The fact that he's telling you this says way more about HIM than it does about YOU.
And what exactly did he say? I need details because I'm already feeling protective and ready to throw hands 🤨
But seriously babe, don't compare yourself to her - that's not what this is about. This is about him potentially breaking trust and boundaries.
Have you told anyone else about this yet? And do you want to talk about how you're really feeling? Because I can tell you're holding back and I'm here for ALL of it ❤️
My boyfriend told me he's falling for his coworker. She's so smart and fun. I'm just a boring office worker... I can't imagine losing him. What should I do?
I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. It can be incredibly painful and unsettling to face this kind of situation. Here are some thoughtful steps you can take to process everything and figure out how to move forward:
1. Give Yourself Time to Process
It's natural to feel hurt, insecure, or even angry. Don't suppress these emotions—allow yourself to feel them without judgment. Journaling or talking to a trusted friend can help you process your thoughts.
2. Have a calm Conversation
Ask your boyfriend for a calm, open discussion about his feelings and your relationship.
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